My husband and I have grown into a team rather than 2 people constantly battling for the upper hand. We compliment each other well. Sometimes to both of our demises but still....we work well together.
Physically of course I don't have my little college body anymore and even though I take my happy hiney to the gym daily, I have not found her yet. I am okay with this. I have a husband who loves me and I am still able to do what I want to do in my life. However, I will still continue to look for that perfect body that I was so fat back in my late teens.
So I have to say....40s don't look too bad.